Is Your Significant Other Preventing You From Your Potential?

I've been through a lot in my lifetime.

I've worked with hundreds and thousands of people over the years. The great thing about that is I got to interact and see the many sides of people, their insecurities, and strengths.

Sometimes, as I coach a client I begin noticing their progress is very slow. Sometimes minimal. I exhaust every avenue when working with clients. My intuition begins pointing to a different variable. This variable is "the significant other". As my client, you already know I build a strong union with you, enough to know very much about you. This is necessary if I am going to help you progress in your life, since physical progression is limited by emotional progression.

If you're working with a coach who knows what they're doing and you simply are not progressing, look beside you. Now, this is for the people who are hell-bent on getting to their goals. Those that work hard day in and day out to create the best version of themselves. Does your significant other bring you down? Do they praise you daily? Do they give you that pep talk to keep you in check, knowing you are emotionally and mentally invested? When they see you slacking off, do they grab your ass and put you back in your lane? Or do they support the slip-ups. Do they tell you that "You don't need a coach..."?

Those are the ones you need to avoid. Although you may have a relationship with them, it's obvious why YOU are not reaching your potential.

Let me tell you something about me, maybe this will help.

I praise the gifted, and non-gifted. I compliment the fat, slow, ugly human who has nothing going for them except a good heart and clean intentions. Do you know why? Because I know how far a compliment can take a human.

If the person who is supposedly the one who's gonna better your life isn't the reason YOU are better, get the f*** out of the relationship and reevaluate how you got into that mess of a relationship. An unhealthy relationship doesn't have to be abuse. It can simply lack the intention needed to better YOU. After all, this is ALL about YOU.